mrspider:

yknow even if the happiness/comfort of trans people isnt important to you, to enforce a “correct” way for men/women to look, the idea that we need to be passing or that we need to have bodies of a certain height or weight or our faces cannot be too round or too square, that we cannot be too much of ANYTHING that deviates from this make-believe idea of what it means to be who we already are…

you are completely spitting in the face of every cis fat person, person of color, disabled person, every intersex person, gnc person, or even just cis people who do not fit this imaginary image of what being a man/woman is. not to mention, there is no societally “correct” way to be a nonbinary person or way to pass as nonbinary but considering most people who care about other people passing don’t usually care for anyone who deviates from their idea of the gender binary, mentioning that feels like talking to a brick wall.