fizzybunniez:

fizzybunniez:

really tired of people who aren’t lesbians saying stuff like “you don’t have to call yourself a lesbian even if you are only attracted to woman! its ok to not like that label!” because while it is 100% ok to label yourself how you want, I don’t think you guys realize that the reason so many people feel uncomfortable with the word lesbian is because of the over sexualization and fetishization of our identity. 

like i do not know how to tell you that the statement “a Sapphic person who fits the definition of lesbian 100% may not choose to identify as a lesbian!” is not as radical as you think it is. all i get from this statement is that we need to have more education about lesbianism as a whole because being a lesbian is not a bad thing, and I need people to stop subtlety implying that it is.